Tagged: travel
Did I Just have a Disclosure Day Experience in the Rice Fields of Chiang Mai, Thailand?
I am sitting in one of my favourite places to be, nestled away in a beautiful spot in Thailand. We have been coming here on and off over the past 3 years of continuosly dipping back to Asia. The villa, that we always return to is smack in the middle of the rice fields.
It’s literally called Palm Village. I am in Doi Saket, Thailand. A place I am very familiar with which, also happens to fall on my astrocartography chart.

If you aren’t familiar with astrocartography, it is essentially the astrology of location, a map that projects the planetary alignments from the exact moment of your birth onto the globe, revealing how different places carry distinct cosmic frequencies for you.
For me, the Neptune MC (Midheaven) line runs directly through this slice of Thailand. The Midheaven governs our higher calling and public life, while Neptune is the planet of mysticism, dreams, and spiritual depth. Having it run right through Doi Saket explains why this place has always felt less like a temporary stop and more like a sacred sanctuary for soul-searching and deep psychological renewal.
This morning the line between my internal study of the last few decades and the physical world disappeared. It wasn’t blurred, it was gone. If you would have told me a few hours ago that a conversation with a stranger would be a cosmic mirror for a trip I am taking in three weeks, I would have smiled and said, “Of course, that is how the frequency works.” But to experience that? That is a whole other kind of magic.
The Call, the Book and the Mirror
It all began with a random tutoring session. A new student boked a session, a young woman who selected me specifically she prefaced after thoroughly reading my ‘About Me’ because something in my bio touched her.
As we spoke, she opened up about the next big pivot in her life: she is leaving her home to go to Canada to study psychology. A total 180 from her engineering career. She is also studying and learning tarot. We tumbled down a rabbit hole discussing confidence, mindset, and the mysteries of human thought. She told me she had previously studied in London. The moment the word “London” left her mouth, a bell rang in my chest.
It wasn’t just a random chime; it was a geographic activation. As a first-generation Canadian born with British birthrights, London has always been woven into the fabric of my identity, but my astrocartography chart elevates it to a full-blown focal point of destiny. It’s a city I deeply love, it’s where Leon is from, and it is the exact energetic coordinate where I feel an undeniable calling to pitch my work to agents.
Beyond the personal and professional ties, London holds the historical frequency of my deepest obsessions, it is the very soil where Henry Sidgwick founded the Society for Psychical Research.
The Alchemical Couple
What fascinates me most about this history isn’t just the spooky phenomena; it is the breathtaking partnership of Henry and Eleanor Sidgwick. They were the ultimate alchemical match. While Henry brought the open-minded, philosophical curiosity, constantly asking what if, Eleanor brought a brilliant, razor-sharp mathematical mind.
Working alongside Nobel Laureates in physics, she was a fierce skeptic who actively busted fraudulent mediums, ensuring their research had absolute scientific integrity. Yet, after decades of rigorous data analysis, even she concluded that telepathy was a undeniable law of nature.
I love them because they prove you don’t have to abandon logic to explore the unseen. They didn’t want blind faith; they wanted truth. As I head to London, I am so eager to look further into their work and walk the very spaces where they married high science with the deepest mysteries of the human soul.
I have been to London before but this time with a completely different intention.
Hearing her mention the city wasn’t just a coincidence; it was a direct ping from the map of my own life blueprint, confirming that my inner world is about to externalize in the place where my lineage, love, and legacy collide.
I told her about Henry Sidgwick, the 19th-century philosopher, open-minded empiricist, and brilliant mind behind the founding of the Society for Psychical Research. I expected a blank stare given she majored in engineering. Instead, she paused, reached off-camera, and pulled his book off her shelf.
She already owned it.
That was the first collapse of the quantum wave function.
Make big moves
I spent almost a month in England, twice, with Leon prior to his big move to Canada in October 2019, I’m keen to return to the castles, churches, history and my families home land. I’m first generation born Canadian.
I’ve always been obsessed with castles and architecture ….Arundel Castle (in the first photo) is one of my all time favourites… the rose garden smelled like heavenly bliss. 🌸🌸



I’ve been to London, Manchester, Stone Henge, York and the Yorkshire Dales (we took a ride on the old steam train 🚂), visited Whitby the birth place and inspiration behind Bram Stokers Dracula and Bath.
The last time we were in England we were packing things up, getting affairs settled, settling tenants, saying good bye to family etc. on top of country hopping through Europe to squeeze in a last road trip while Leon had his car.
I remember at the time all of the feelings I had of trepidation and pressure with the move. THIS was a BIG move. If we had difficulties with our relationship etc there was no where for Leon to go if I needed to establish boundaries for me and the kiddos. (blending a family is hard even under the most convenient circumstances) Leon was giving up everything (yet also gaining everything 🥰).
Continue readingWant to see a major shift in your life? Try replacing “I’m sorry” with “Thank you”.

I don’t know if it’s an over all Canadian thing….being from the land of bumping into car doors and apologizing… lol but some how I became that “I’m sorry” person. It came as a surprise to me as most of my younger life you’d be hard pressed to hear me apologize for anything. But eventually I chose to learn about both accountability and forgiveness. But here’s the thing, sometimes we can end up swaying too far and become over accountable.
But too much apologizing also leads to a negative mindset of self…a self blame mentality…and even a hyper focus on self.
Continue readingI sold everything and moved to Mexico to slow travel as a digital nomad. Life update
Well I think you’ll need to grab a drink, get comfy and settle in, it’s been a long time since I’ve updated on my life and status on this blog! There is so much to share about my personal journey and the changes that have gone on over the past few years.
From heart break and the break down of my marriage to the journey of finding freedom and personal independence being single, traveling Europe on a solo trip to then meeting the love of my life a fellow poet from the other side of the globe (England) and a whirlwind romance spanning many countries….from our first, month long date starting in Sydney, Australia with a Royal Caribbean cruise ending with us in England and spanning 6 countries. We got engaged at Aphrodites Rock in Cyprus four months after we started talking and celebrated it in Paris, France. It’s been so magical and rather apt for two poets I’d say.

However I’m not going to get into all of that just yet…but I wanted to share part of what’s been going on in my life to demonstarate the huge role that travel and FINALLY being able to explore the culture and history on this vast planet has made on me and my life.
Continue readingWell, it’s certainly been a while! But I’m back!
I’m not going to get into the ins and outs of whats transpired over the past few years yet (how ever I fully intend to!)
I’ve started sharing my poetry and creations on instagram as @Writings_of_an_ex_Mrs so that should give you a little glimpse as to where things are at now. How ever do not be misled I am no longer an EX and I have literally been on the most epic of poetic love stories I have yet to hear. I’m super pumped to start sharing it with you all.
One of the biggest changes ahead is coming in April 2021 when we (my partner Leon…well, actually FIANCE and I) start the digital nomad journey full time (we travelled to 13 countries together in 2019 prior to Covid hitting, after meeting through the Instagram poetry community!) He’s from England and yes fully equipped with that amazing accent….you can take a sneak peak here for some quick catch up and a major write up in the description section if you’d like …….
We have started sharing little clips to the You Tube shorts section since we filmed a lot of footage to share with our Instagram followers so why not start sharing that before we start with our fuller videos in April!
How is everyone doing!? Let me know in the comments if you’re still around and see this!
I will posting on a consistent basis from here on in and I will be doing some editing to my blog aesthetic too.
Essence
I sit here waiting
not so patiently for you.
Feeling alive inside
Aware of my pumping heart and every breath
I know you are nearing me,
completing me,
greeting me Continue reading
The Map
You wanted my heart
You took it for a ride
Across the country side
You said you would take me places that I’d never been before
And you did
Places that I didn’t want to go
You showed me sites that were precious to you
They made no sense to me
You whispered to me to come closer so that I could see what you were pointing at
No matter how hard I tried to see it, I couldn’t
I didn’t see the beauty in the things you found fanciful
I didn’t stand in awe at the things that took your breath away Continue reading
Night lights, city streets
I love being on the road. Long drives. New places and destinations to explore.
It’s always exciting to arrive at the destination but the journey, the time spent getting there is my favorite part.
Some of the most engaging conversations I have had have been while on the road, with both young and old.
While on our way to the Eastern townships in Quebec this weekend we drove through Montreal.
While looking out the window I was inspired to write.
A poem of all things.
The words just came. Continue reading




